Life can get hectic, and it's easy to fall into the trap of "just getting by." As a father and husband, I can certainly relate. We often focus on being financial providers, planning activities, and contributing time, but sometimes we forget a crucial element: "nurturing". 

Just like in our families, true provision in any service role extends beyond deliverables. It's about recognizing the human side of the equation. Our clients, just like our loved ones, have lives, passions, and challenges. When we take a moment to see them as individuals and approach them with empathy, something remarkable happens. 

The Power of Personal Connection

Personally, getting to know my clients on a deeper level has been incredibly rewarding. It allows me to glimpse their motivations and what drives them. This fosters a sense of connection that goes beyond transactions and leads to better collaboration. We gain a deeper understanding of each other's work styles and goals, ultimately leading to a more productive and fulfilling experience for everyone involved.

The Takeaway: Slow Down and Nurture

Let's move beyond a purely transactional approach. By incorporating empathy and a genuine interest in the people we serve, we can create a shift. Slow down, prioritize connection, and offer a nurturing service. Remember, it's not just about the bottom line; it's about building genuine relationships and creating a more positive impact.

How to Become a Nurturing Provider: 4 Key Practices

Here are some ways to integrate nurturing service into your interactions:

1. Active Listening: Pay close attention to what your client (or family member) is saying, both verbally and nonverbally.

2. Appreciation: Express gratitude for their business, trust, or simply their presence in your life.

3. Understanding: Be patient during difficult times and show willingness to work through challenges together.

4. Celebrating Successes: Acknowledge and celebrate their achievements, big or small.

References:

Greater Good Science Center, University of California, Berkeley. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/social_connection